Technically, you can’t find out if your partner is loyal to you. You can find out if he/she is unfaithful. Faithfulness is just opposite to infidelity, but if you have no evidence that he/she is unfaithful, it does not imply that he/she is automatically faithful.
The only option is to assume that no news is good news. He/she can still do something and you never get behind.
There are people who are really professional in finding evidence that his/her partner is infidelity. As the old iPhone in his trunk throw and follow the car with other iPhone, this kind of crap.
I do not like doing that.I just expect certain discretness from my partner. That he is doing it secretly and doing it safely, I don’t need to know.
And you have to keep it simple when you lie.I had a partner who suddenly went to Maasmechelen regularly to shop. Of Amsterdam. And he bought not much there. Every now and then a shirt from Zara or so. I said once such a thing is it well worth it to ride half a day for a few shirts? He said it was really much cheaper there and that he liked it there shopping etc. I took my shoulders, from OK, car of the matter, your time, I do not mind.
Next time he went to Maasmechelen, he came back with a very nice dress for me.My size, my color, fit perfectly. I said give me a receipt, I’ll make you the money. He said need not, it was cheap, you get mine. I was amazed, so I suddenly get a little gift from him spontaneously. Never happened in 10 years time. Only with birthdays and never as a surprise, I had to always indicate what I wanted to have.
So I did the dress and went to the shopping center Amstelveen with the little even.Then V & D was not bankrupt yet, so we went to La Place. I walk through Desigual department and I see my dress on the paspop.
Says the saleswoman: Oh, you already have him.Of Kalverstraat sure? I just unpacked them and hung them. New collection. Just inside.
“Do they have something in outlets that looks like?”
Impossible.Not this “.
And then the penny fell.
Stalking is the best option.As few as possible give the room and when the person in question goes on the path without you follow him or if you are too lazy you just call one hundred times and ask you ‘ Where are you? ‘
Yes or not.If someone wants to go weird and is not willing to give signals in my direction (which illustrate the dissatisfaction), I can do quite a little bit of it. I’m not very hard to talk with.
In addition, I have something like I’m not going to be strange, would also enter into the conversation if I was “relational” unhappy (preferably at a much earlier stage) and assume that my partner does too.We have agreed. If he doesn’t, does he only have himself with it? Then you make such a situation a thousand times more difficult for yourself.
We have made agreements about how we interact with each other and at what times we appeal to each other, we do just that.There is no reason for me to think that he is going strange. If he does it, the cooperation stops there and we each go our own way. So even then there is no man overboard, well, he then, but I just keep living.
At the moment I would ask that question, the most essential thing in my relationship would be broken.
My ex-wife showed a high degree of jealousy.That was my main reason to divorce her. If there is no more confidence, there is no basis for a relationship.
Two years after our divorce, I found out that they had been cheating on me since 3 years before we got apart.
Actually gave me a very good feeling afterwards.Despite the fact that she deceived me, I did not dismarried her.
The basis for the relationship has always been there.However, she chose not to build any further. Her conviction that I “had to cheat her” was her excuse to eventually deceive me.
Her choice.And I’m actually very happy with it.
‘, ‘ Someone who trusts his or her partner is not actually concerned with such a question:) It is only when there is some suspicion of infidelity that you begin to think about this… what makes you not trust your partner for one hundred percent?Is there a valid reason? An open conversation with your partner about your doubts may also help?
“,” Have confidence.
I think there is only one watertight method.
An anecdote from the Renaissance talks about a man who is worried about his wife.Would she be faithful? Day and night he thinks of it and therefore he also dreams about her faithfulness. In his dream, he sees a wise guide and asks the guide: “What can I do to assure me of my wife’s faithfulness?” The guide gives him a beautiful ring and slides him to his finger. “Make sure you always wear this ring and your wife will not be unfaithful.” All the tension falls off the man, finally he has the solution. He wakes up. He lies next to his wife with his finger in her vagina.
But how can a woman know if her husband is faithful?Anyway in the same way.
By analyzing your partner very well for imperfections that you are normally not accustomed to.A partner quickly shows enough non verbal and verbal, if this commits adultery. If you don’t feel it, then I think you should ask yourself to take the mirror and look at your real feeling with this partner.
Anything that is based on mistrust is a relationship that poisons.Under no circumstances whatsoever can gemotivered be justified by distrust. Doubt, suspicion and suspicions are evil. Reproking, lies and secrets bring confidence into danger and destroy a relationship.